Okay, I’m still single, don’t have kids, no girlfriend (at least for now), and no significant others…. But I can tell you that I know how to grow and take care a baby better than most fathers do, and I know how to cook better than most mothers do.. I’ve been a baby sitter to couple of my nieces and nephews since I was in Grade 1. Our oldest sister got married when I was in Grade 1 and since I lived with them for their house was in front of my school, I had to help taking care of their babies… I’ve been a part time baby sitter form more than 2 decades.. I think that’s explains everything…
I am not 100% against marriage (I know I’ll go get married someday). But getting married at younger age is like cutting your life into half. I have a lot of friends and most of them are fathers. At least 3 of them every week asking me to go out because they feel boring, they feel powerless, they lost self esteem, and all other insecurities. I never asked them the same thing. I have a lot of things to do to make my self busy.. My time is not en enough for my self..
What’s the problem then? Marriage is for people who are super serious in life and wanted to take the ultimate responsibility for whatever personal reason they may have. I hate when someone tells me to get married because no one will take care of me when I get old. That theory is pathetic and come from fathers who are losers. There is no general rule that say “one must get married at earlier age because it’s difficult to get along with a younger kid when you are in your 40s and above”.
I have a long time friend who got married at 20. Now he is 37 and have 6 kids in 3 different women (including his wife). Another friend of mine got married at 22 right after college graduation because the girl was pregnant. Now he is 35, have 3 kids in 2 different women (including his wife). So what’s the point of getting married if you are to cheat your wife? They are full of regrets and their disappointments and lack of satisfaction leads to more complicated life by having multiple relationships. They think they can find better relationship with other girls, one after the other. Shows how complicated a married life would be for unprepared people.
I never heard a single man said he is jealous to another man who have 2 kids and has limited life outside. I always heard someone telling me that my life is better than him because I have no boss at home (at least for now).
Getting married should be done only when you know and feel you really want it at the right time and right age. Getting married should have no reason why one should do it. “I will get married because I want it, and I feel it’s the right thing for me to do right at this moment of my life… But telling me that I need to get married because no one will take care of me someday when I get old, or I need companion because I feel lonely, is the dumbest and most pathetic reason of getting married.”
If you want to have a happy life, stay single….. unless you feel you want to have kids…
Sex Stops After Marriage
……some interesting quotes….
“My wife reached a point where she only uses sex to get something, and she doesn’t happen to want anything at the moment. ”
“I walked into a large bedroom when my wife was changing into her outfit to get on the plane to start our honeymoon, admired her gorgeous half-naked figure with a ‘you wanna knock one out right here and now’ look on my face, and she said, “Oh, no. None of that nonsense. We’re married now.” I mean she changed *instantly* from this funny happy woman into this scheming bitch who just had plans to buy and redecorate a big house and throw parties in it with my money. ”
Here is a typical married woman:
“I give birth to your kids and you complain we don’t have sex? How do you think they were born, osmosis? Who takes care of them, drives them to school, picks them up for after school activities, drives them to sports, takes them to their friends houses, plays chauffeur, cleans, cooks, goes to PTA meetings and then caters to your sorry whiney ass when you get home. To top it off after you eat, fart or burp you walk out the door and go out with your buddies.
You want sex? Go fuck yourself! I’m too tired.”
“No more sex. Period. She’s too busy spending my money putting traventine in the entryway, redoing the kitchen with Corian, redecorating the bedroom, having parties, and all that other shit, or talking to girlfriends incessantly about the same. ”
How Women Manipulate You!
“They aren’t insane. They are infinitely selfish and manipulative, and incredibly clever about disguising their manipulation. They think that men are just tools to use and discard as needed.
It just SEEMS like insanity to you, when you see the wild fucking weird shit that they pull on you. In reality they are busily manipulating you, doing crazy shit to throw you off balance and confuse you, so you won’t see through their bullshit. ”
“Women are, for the most part, not well suited to accept reality or to think logically. They will approach a situation with their mind already made up, then they will twist and manipulate the information to validate what they’re already thinking.
So their views on reality are usually messed up. and their process for arguing/interacting is not based on reality, instead it’s based on whatever irrational tools will help them prove their point (screaming, personal attacks, red herrings, etc).”
If you still young, wanted to be happy, stay single……. Don’t let your dick dictate your mind…
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